Hello! How are you? I decided to write this blog tonight because A- on my last blog tilted ” People we meet, Coincidence or Fate”I said I would write a blog on fear and B- I had a conversation with a group of ladies and the topic of codependency and fear came up and because I don’t wanna loose my words I’m writing now ;).
Fear is an emotion that causes us pain and threat. I am a spiritual woman so when I feel fear, what that tells me is that I have separated from spirit.
Codependency is an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner.
All of us have felt fear and codependency. We are all very familiar with these two emotions. These two have a very strong pull on us humans and to learn how to break these chains takes a lot of effort, practice, strength and ultimately and most importantly faith! It is easier said than done for sure. Let me tell you though, when you finally FREE yourself from fear and codependency it is a totally different life you live. Peaceful, relaxed, happy, sure, positive, strong, you gain self esteem, self respect, confidence, to name a few.
I learned that fear blocked me and stopped me from doing a lot of things when I was younger…. If I had known then what I know now. But my life has been full of ups and downs and lessons and many blessings. I have learned a lot and I have used it to make me a better woman today. Because of my life and my past and the lessons I learned, I am who I am today and I would not change nor trade this for anything. I am in a great place with myself. I have kicked fear off and I learned not to be codependent. I have finally freed myself and you can do it too!
Many people both man and woman are codependent and afraid of change, any change. Many people choose to live miserably because of fear and codependency. I am here to tell you that no one has to live unhappily ever after. Change is great! and many times just the medicine we need.
If you need to talk more about this or if you would like to ask me any more questions or you are simply looking for guidance. I am happy to help. I hope this blog is useful to you and helps inspire you.